A word of advise to my brothers who don't feel masculine enough (responding to another post)

2022.01.24 22:45 CodApprehensive526 A word of advise to my brothers who don't feel masculine enough (responding to another post)

"We need to be dominant"
"I'm not masculine enough"
"I can't take lead hence I don't think I'm not a man"
My dear respected brothers and sisters, as controversial this post may be, this is a necessary post I think.
It seems that redpill is negatively affecting our brothers and making it's victim.
I'm someone who's a "manly man" (think powerbuilding, beard etc) but at the same time I have some "feminine characteristics" like self-care routines, liking to decorate my room etc
Masculinity in Islam isn't something that's overly complicated. Sure, men are meant to be protectors but just because they "can't take lead" or whatever doesn't make you less of a man. Matter of fact, trying to "take lead" just sounds very obnoxious and douchey. Some men can't be leaders, and that's ok. Marriage isn't something where you "need to be a leader" in everything.
If you want to feel manly, here's a few things:
-Chuck the redpill thoughts into the trash. Seriously. I might have a harsh view on it, but it's for a very good reason. I was redpilled myself when I was 15 and it made me extremely obnoxious to people around me. The redpill is a recipe for disaster
-Grow out your beard. If you can't do that, buy a derma roller, some beard oil and develop a routine (preferably after washing your face, brushing teeth etc)
-Hit the gym. The men who are insecure about their masculinity tend to be the ones who aren't in the best physical shape. Hitting the gym regularly can do wonders. Take a look at Greg Douccette's videos or Noel Deyzel to get started. More Plates More Dates is good too; AthleanX (old video, new ones are weird) and so forth. There's many more people you can follow to get an understanding on how to go about with this. You can hit me up too if you like (I'm not a complete pro - my only achievement is being able to hit a 170 kg deadlift within 6-7 months of actual training that's been disrupted by lockdown again and again).
-Actually start taking care of your hygiene and grooming. Men and women aren't born ugly; it's just you don't know how to take care of yourself, and that requires effort! Style your hair, groom your beard, wear some good clothes (trackies and hoodies don't count unless if it's the gym or home) and so on. Check out AlphaM (take with a pinch of salt) and other people like that (just take the grooming advise, not the "spicy senoritas" bit)
-Also chuck out any insecurities you have. Give yourself positive self talk. As corny as it sounds, believe me it genuinely is effective. You DON'T need to be 6 feet+ to be a man. You DON'T need to repress your emotions.
-Stop comparing yourself to others. The only person you should be comparing yourself to is YOURSELF from YESTERDAY. At the end of the day, it will only be you being judged by Allah alone. Saying, "Ya Allah PersonA did worse sins than me" will not save you. You are either your best investment or worst liability. Be wise
So please abandon the redpill ideology; radical feminism and whatever isms there are. Just stick with Islam. Simple as that.
submitted by CodApprehensive526 to MuslimLounge [link] [comments]

2022.01.24 22:45 Thatpart96 Payment & sender not in my recent activity and funds not in my bank. Did the person cancel transaction somehow?

Had a girl send funds for a service. She is not in my recent transactions anymore and I haven’t received the money in my bank either. Cash app was no help, my bank can’t do anything since nothing is pending or posted. What did this girl do?! Was going to give it two more days but even then why isn’t her transaction pending in my app anymore? I haven’t received an email either about disputing etc.
submitted by Thatpart96 to CashApp [link] [comments]

2022.01.24 22:45 ExcellentAd1222 Can I get a QC on these seller pics

Can I get a QC on these seller pics submitted by ExcellentAd1222 to DHgate [link] [comments]

2022.01.24 22:45 Faction_Chief @USATODAY: A man was criminally charged and lost his job after yelling at employees who he said made a drink that triggered his son’s allergy to nuts. He also made a derogatory comment questioning an employee's immigration status. https://t.co/EGg79BBquO

@USATODAY: A man was criminally charged and lost his job after yelling at employees who he said made a drink that triggered his son’s allergy to nuts. He also made a derogatory comment questioning an employee's immigration status. https://t.co/EGg79BBquO submitted by Faction_Chief to NoFilterNews [link] [comments]

2022.01.24 22:45 carneentortilla Tábata Jalil

Tábata Jalil submitted by carneentortilla to FamousLatinas [link] [comments]

2022.01.24 22:45 shuvammax ⚔️ AlienX ⚔️ a Fantasy Anime Style PVP Play-To-Earn NFT game ⚡ Launching Now on BSC ❤ Low Marketcap!! ☀︎ Join our telegram!

Welcome To ⚔️ AlienX ⚔️
⚔️ a Fantasy Anime Style PVP Play-To-Earn NFT game ⚔️
⚡️Explore the world of Zaidara through a thrilling campaign mode, or battle PVP and reap the rewards⚡️
Contract Address: 0x7f84f9A0ae61839D1eeD2B92d0F6AC4A4E59C35C
‍♀️ Fully Doxxed Team
☄︎ Earn Rewards in BUSD
☘︎ 2 Full Audits Done (dessert finance & Techrate)
☝︎ 100% Transparency
☠︎ V2 contract LAUNCHED on PCS! ☠︎
➡️ NY billboards, celebrities and much more in the next few days.
⛩️ Tokenomics
✈️3% Marketing Fee
✈1% Charity Donation
✈️2% Buy Back Fee
✈️3% Liquidity Premium
✈️7% BUSD Reflections
❄️Liquidity Lock 1 year
♟️ Token Details ♟️
Contract Address: 0x7f84f9A0ae61839D1eeD2B92d0F6AC4A4E59C35C
Name: AlienX
Symbol: ALX
Decimals: 9
☢️ Useful Links
↪️ Pancakeswap: https://pancakeswap.finance/swap?outputCurrency=0x7f84f9A0ae61839D1eeD2B92d0F6AC4A4E59C35C
↪️ Website: https://alienxonline.com/
↪️ Telegram: https://t.me/AlienxOnline
↪️ Twitter: https://twitter.com/alienx_online
submitted by shuvammax to cryptostreetbets [link] [comments]

2022.01.24 22:45 Bot-47 i’ve been listening to grime cause my bf is in a coma apparently.

submitted by Bot-47 to teenagers [link] [comments]

2022.01.24 22:45 usdballum FS/NFT Various Singles-8. See Prices In Captions. Shipping $1.50. PayPal Only

FS/NFT Various Singles-8. See Prices In Captions. Shipping $1.50. PayPal Only submitted by usdballum to baseballcards [link] [comments]

2022.01.24 22:45 Holamoncat Ruby Falls

Ruby Falls submitted by Holamoncat to holamoncat [link] [comments]

2022.01.24 22:45 SweetAsianPeach78 What Point Are We Good Enough? When Are We Self Improved Enough To Accept Ourselves?

submitted by SweetAsianPeach78 to AskReddit [link] [comments]

2022.01.24 22:45 prawnbiryani #unsplashcats #cute #adorable #kittens #cats #followformore

#unsplashcats #cute #adorable #kittens #cats #followformore submitted by prawnbiryani to unsplashcats [link] [comments]

2022.01.24 22:45 bentheredonethat1123 Hey broogli! I have a backrooms level for ya!

The name of my backrooms level is the interdimensional marketplace aka level 6600234 can you read it and post it in one of your videos?
submitted by bentheredonethat1123 to broogli [link] [comments]

2022.01.24 22:45 slightly_below_averg building a pc in a desk. HELP

I'm planning on making a pc in a desk and I have some questions for building it. my most concern comes from cooling as seen in the photo below there will be 3x120mm intake and 3x120mm exhaust. but there are some other things which I fought about and I'm not sure how to deal with them on being should I have 2x120mm fans underneath the gpu to help with cooling or will it even matter that much. second rn I have a 120mm aio(corsair h60) it have an intake and an exhaust fan but as there will only be 9cm of building room having two fans and the radiator would only allow for about a cm of breathing room. which I don't see being very good, so would I be better off keeping both fans on or taking one off and if so should the fan be intake or exhaust. If you have any other suggestions or tips I would greatly appreciate.
if you wanna see a 2D photo of the drawing visit here. reddit doesn't allow me to put text and photo. you can also DM me and ill send it to you.
link to some of the parts I'm gonna be using.
ARCTIC F12 PWM PST (2 Pack) - 120 mm PWM PST Case Fan with PWM Sharing Technology (PST), Value Pack, Very Quiet Motor, Computer, Fan Speed: 230-1350 RPM - Black/White : Amazon.ca: Automotive
AC Infinity Ventilation Grille 5, for PC Computer AV Electronic Cabinets, Also Includes Hardware to Mount Two 80mm Fans : Amazon.ca: Electronics
AC Infinity Black Ventilation Grille 18", for PC Computer AV Electronic Cabinets, Also mounts Three 120mm Fans : Amazon.ca: Electronics
DEEPCOOL FH-10 Integrated Fan Hub, Powering up to 10 Fans (3-pin or 4-pin), Occupying only One 4-pin Motherboard Header … : Amazon.ca: Electronics
Asiahorse New PCI Express High Shielding Property PCIe 3.0 16x Flexible Cable Card Extension Port Adapter High Speed Riser Card (20cm Black) : Amazon.ca: Electronics
submitted by slightly_below_averg to buildapc [link] [comments]

2022.01.24 22:45 damianspace16 I just want my Big Mozz

I just want my Big Mozz submitted by damianspace16 to sheetz [link] [comments]

2022.01.24 22:45 Jooo0 [WTT] FDE ACF for ODG ACF [AZ]

Looking to trade FDE ACF for an ODG ACF please. ODG is baeee
TV: $110?
https://imgur.com/a/fGL33LD Tried my best taking diff angles/lightings to show the color.
Chats are disabled, so post here and pm me
submitted by Jooo0 to GunAccessoriesForSale [link] [comments]

2022.01.24 22:45 cryptosucculents1 Scooping time

Hey Fam,
How long on average are you all waiting for the Sundae to be scooped? I have been waiting almost 18 hours.
submitted by cryptosucculents1 to SundaeSwap [link] [comments]

2022.01.24 22:45 arabishtranslations $20 Paypal cash or any giftcard of your choice (03/30/2022) {WW}

submitted by arabishtranslations to sweepstakes [link] [comments]

2022.01.24 22:45 Muffysac PSA: Repeatable SBC's on Web App

So it seems there is a 5 minute timer on all repeatable SBC's on the web app
You can either refresh the tab or they will be available again after 5 minutes without refreshing.
Hopefully this isn't intended with the changes coming to SBCs but I guess we'll have to wait and see. Trying to do ~100 bronze upgrades will take forever if this is intended.
submitted by Muffysac to FIFA [link] [comments]

2022.01.24 22:45 ShortChecker This guy really doesn’t know Jack worth Tits

This guy really doesn’t know Jack worth Tits submitted by ShortChecker to wallstreetbets [link] [comments]


submitted by taylorsgirlswift to TaylorSwiftMerch [link] [comments]

2022.01.24 22:45 bitconnnnneeeeect Test

submitted by bitconnnnneeeeect to Theta_Crypto [link] [comments]

2022.01.24 22:45 BLACKBEARDBLACKBEARD Tray for the (week?)

Tray for the (week?) submitted by BLACKBEARDBLACKBEARD to FemFragLab [link] [comments]

2022.01.24 22:45 NolanTacoKing This thing scares me

submitted by NolanTacoKing to miraculousladybug [link] [comments]

2022.01.24 22:45 iamcalifw 🐶 MetaShiba - Just stealth launched 10 minutes 🚀 Renounced Ownership | KYC In Progress 💲Did you miss Doge, ShibaInu, FlokiInu? Don't miss MetaShiba ($METASHIBA) - GEM x1000 moonshot | LP Locked 1 year

TG: https://t.me/metashiba_group
Slippage : 0%
Did you miss Doge, ShibaInu, FlokiInu? Don't miss MetaShiba ($METASHIBA) and Get your 100x Gain Now and Make this Most Popular Community In World!
METASHIBA is an elastic supply token build on the Binance smart chain, designed to rise by a minimum of 12% every 8 hours. That's the best rate of rise guarantee you can find !
📈 The price of one token can ONLY GOES UP !
Tokenomics : 100,000,000,000,000
Experimented team of professionals (development, marketing, etc.) 📡
Incoming marketing :

Marketcap target : $1Trillion ! 📈
And more to come
🚀 Buy On Pancakeswap - https://pancakeswap.finance/swap?outputCurrency=0x1d6b84db7ae8081410727f6565443501cef8d0a4
💥 CONTRACT : 0x1d6b84db7ae8081410727f6565443501cef8d0a4
🚀LP Locked : https://deeplock.io/lock/0x640390aa5c62846d825611b2bfdb92c135495370
Chart : https://charts.bogged.finance/?c=bsc&t=0x1d6B84dB7AE8081410727f6565443501CEf8d0a4
Renounced Ownership : https://bscscan.com/address/0x1d6B84dB7AE8081410727f6565443501CEf8d0a4#readContract
submitted by iamcalifw to TheBinanceNFT [link] [comments]

2022.01.24 22:45 Finalwar01 First time modding ark.

Not sure if this is the right forum but I thought I would ask. I'm modding ark for the first time after oy have my pc for a couple of weeks. Does anybody have a list of mods that all work together. I played ark on the ps4 for years and I'm looking to add as many mods that add new dinos. If anybody has a load order that they are using or have used I would appreciate it.
submitted by Finalwar01 to ARK [link] [comments]